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The Silent Way of Caring

spaces where silence lives

Dec 16, 2019

Saying For Today: Then, if we speak after honoring the silent space, our words are more likely to flow from and be imbued with the flavor of the Quiet.


The Sensuality of Silence

Quiet, peaceful, receptive
resting in the Aloneness alive within where
Solitude communes with Solitude
in silently loving another
without going out into
a world of words

When uncomfortable in the presence of the pain of another, or when feeling we need to say something even if saying something need not be said at all, we often fill the space with words. We do this, as though spaces are less important than what we fill them with. We could, rather, let the space be an invitation, even a word in itself, or an act of compassion in being-with, communication much deeper than that which can be spoken. The heart has a language all its own, and it is not limited even by distance. Then, if we speak after honoring the silent space, our words are more likely to flow from and be imbued with the flavor of the Quiet. We, also, need time alone, times apart, even between those we are close to, so we commune with the living Silence, so we can be more a means of being able to communicate with and from the Silence, whether the communication is with words or wordless.

Presence speaks
more powerfully
than ever did or can
the finest or holiest of speech

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I sat beside the patient, who was lying asleep in bed. I did not want to wake her. I appeared just to be sitting, but in the Quiet appearance is never what is the full reality. I looked at the caregiver, a deeply religious woman, as she stood beside me. I asked her, "Do you know what one has to do to pray?" She asked, looking surprised at the question but interested, "What?" "Nothing," I replied. Briefly, she looked confused. I added, "Just being with someone can be prayer. That can be communion." She smiled, eyes no longer showing confusion but bright with joy, as though she had just seen a jewel of Life she had never seen before.

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in the Quiet
silently being with another
sensing deepening Presence
movement from body and mind, deeper, less of self
out of this, without words, spirit touches spirit
a true, unseen work and connection occurs
this cannot occur outside Spirit, only in Spirit

few seem to know this
so focus caring for another in words and actions
caring for others body to body
not knowing this grand action of
Love meeting Love in Silence
in the same Life we all are
in timeless Eternity

in this Silence with the other
self decreases, Life increases
with less of self
more of Grace
the other needs this Grace
rather than needing you
even if the other does not know this ~
you know it

The Sacred in Me bows to the Sacred in You

(C) Brian K. Wilcox, 2019

 

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